Hey,I got this "funny" article of NewYork times here. I loved the article from the title to the footnote. Though I am no more a teenager-sad:(-still I can do relate to the subject...atleast I feel like a teenager! "Peeking inside the mind of the boy dating your daughter" goes the title-isn't that makes it compulsively readable for everyone from a teenage boy/girl to moms and dads.
It speaks about a study which revealed that teenage boys(hereafter referred to as horny liars) dont get into a relationship just coz they have "only" sex in their minds exactly-what bastards the subjets of the survey were(kidding!). It says they care about relationships...they "like the other person". And there are also comments from "more responsible and truthful" adults who say that the survey only further "strengthens their conviction about the horny liars".
Well I see!!!Hmmm.... who is correct?? As I am no more a horny liar as well as not the "truthful" adult,I consider myself to be the best person who can give an absolutely unbiased judgement. Are boys really the thought to be stereotype persons and all they have on their mind is sex. I'll say to some extent this is true. Well even after teenage(in India)-basically who I see now-a-days here want to have a girlfriend is coz they wanna get laid. They just wanna experience it and not to forget the ultimate desire of losing virginity before graduation-huh!but we are the unlucky ones,I suppose...
But.But.But.Not everyone is like that.There are boys who care about relationships...I have known them and believe me they are into the relationship coz they like the other person. It may lead to sex but its not the objective(or atleast what I know). And there are also boys who got into a relationship coz of "the" objective but landed into it permanently and in fact,started loving the girl. I remember my room-mate had told me in the first year-"Dude,you get into with a girl coz you wanna get laid but then after some time you get attached to her emotionally and then its no more the same". When he told his, he was into a relation that time and still into it. What will you say to that?
So basically its wrong to make any generalisation. And anyways, whats their to talk about? Everyone has had that phase of hormonal changes and those "testosterone-fueled" days-so whats the big deal to discuss about it...Things will remain the same...So all you horny liars-keep rocking!!!
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